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Question: I'm afraid to be intimate?
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Answer #1:
Afraid or nervous either way you're probably just not ready. Give it time and allow yourself to grow up a bit remember you're only fourteen. You'll have plenty of time for intimacy later don't rush something you might regret later.Also don't tell your dad.
Answer #2:
lol -.-you're 14
what an idiotic question
no one is going to help you you underaged weirdo
stop craving sex just masturbate and wait till it's legal and you're ready, cause by the sounds of it you are NOT ready yet
it isn't a FEAR of being intimate, it's not being ready
Answer #3:
You are 14 and I am so proud of you for having a level head about this subject. You have the right to wait until your ready for intimacy. You will know when the time is right. Dont rush into it just because you want to fit in or because you feel you have a reputation to hold up. Its not that way. If he dont respect your limits than he is not worth being with in the first place. If a boy really cares about you he will respect your decision. There is nothing wrong with you, just quit worrying about what other people think. Its your body not theirs.Answer #4:
at your age what you feel is normal. You are young and never be pressured into a sexual relationship. Your body is your own. You have the right to say no and remember that.Answer #5:
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to tell you the truth you are unnecessarily fear the natural things of life.nature wants us to make a lot of friends ,grow up with friend and family.it is good if you keep your hymen intact before you decide to marry someone you like most.in your future life you must try to follow good people around you.you are still very young.i hope with a bit more maturity you will be able to get rid of imaginary fears and start to enjoy the real life gradually.wish you all the best.Answer #7:
MAybe yuo should stop telling jokes about boys at the parties and you will be less expected to be hitting a homerun any time soon.Answer #8:
Honey,If you were stretching your legs and it was causing you pain....would you keep doing it? Or would you wait to heal?
Same thing here, obviously. Your body is saying "Whoa! Hit the brakes! We DON'T want to be having sex right now! We're still too young and the risk is too high!!"
So you're getting nervous. Frankly, you SHOULD be nervous about sex and boys. Most of these guys are about to hit growth spurts that will make them hyper aggressive, physically stronger, and will make them almost insanely horny.
What I'm saying is, this is HEALTHY. Don't fight it and don't try to ignore it.
And don't let your stupid 14 year old friends goad you into surrendering your body up to their amusement. I can't think of anything stupider than a woman who falls prey to this.
Value yourself for who you are. These so called friends...they won't be around in 2-3 years.
Good Luck!
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